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Love

What is love?

When one thinks about the word love, they typically think of a relationship between two people. Love is something more than the love that two people share for each other. It is what the entire universe is made of. It is an ever-present feeling that once it is seen, it never goes away.


In this 3-D physical realm, love is viewed as  a set of emotions and behaviors characterized by intimacy, passion, and commitment. It involves care, closeness, protectiveness, attraction, affection, and trust, but it can vary in intensity and can change over time. It is associated with a range of positive emotions, including happiness, excitement, life satisfaction, and euphoria, but it can also result in negative emotions such as jealousy, greed and stress.


Although hormones and biology are important, the way we express and experience love is also influenced by our personal conceptions of love, as love has a different personal meaning for everyone. Sometimes it can be difficult to cope with love. How can something so rich and pure even exist when the world we live in seems chaotic and unfair? Love is what we were before incarnation and what we will be after our avatar dies.


This leads to the creation of the ego, which we recommend you read more about HERE.


Self-love and spirituality go hand-in-hand. When you grow in your spiritual practice, you also grow in your self-love and vice versa.


Spiritual self-love is a beautiful way to incorporate love into your life in very simple ways, but more importantly, it connects you to you, which is the most important connection in your life. Without your own connection to self, you will constantly look for it elsewhere, be stuck within your ego and hence, dogma. It is a never ending and unfulfilling cycle.


Western culture focuses on attracting love, or looking outside oneself for love. However, you will only be able to receive as much love as you give to yourself. Remember this;


"One can only love to the level they love themselves, communicate to the level of their self-awareness and behave to the level of their healed trauma."


You should never feel guilty or ashamed for wanting better for yourself. No one knows you better than you do. No one loves you more than you do. No one is more innerstanding of you than you are. This is your life to live and no one else's. You owe no one an explanation for being you. You owe no one an explanation as to why you want the best for yourself.



Finding what already is

Many are in a constant search for love, even in spirituality, because since birth, they have been conditioned to look outside themselves to find it. The truth is this. The love one seeks already resides within. That is where one should look for love. The universe is love and you are a part of the universe. Love is already here, within you.

Letting go

The biggest obstacle between you and love is your preconceived notions of what love is.


Since birth, you were conditioned to look externally for love; to find love in materialistic objects and finding people who will love you. You were never taught to look within for love.


Love begins with you, and you must let go of the erroneous lies society conditioned you to believe about love. For if you cannot truly love yourself unconditionally, your love for everything else will have conditions, which makes it superficial and meaningless.


This takes a lot of shadow work.

Negative Emotions Associated With Love

While love is associated with a host of positive emotions, it can also be accompanied by a number of negative feelings as well.


Some of the potential pitfalls of experiencing love include:


  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Increased stress
  • Jealousy
  • Obsessiveness
  • Possessiveness
  • Sadness


Of course, these are traits of an untamed and out of control ego, and if not checked, can become spiritual egoism.

Ways to enhance self-love

The Mirror Technique

This may seem a bit odd to do and innerstandably so.


Stand in front of a mirror completely naked. What do you see? Are you having a hard time even looking at yourself? Are you scoffing? Judging yourself? Shaming yourself? What are you feeling? Sad? Angry? Embarrassed?


There are two things to consider, you have a spirit and a spiritual house. Your body is merely an avatar; a holographic projection of your highest self. It does not define you. It is simply a place where your spirit resides while in this 3D realm, hence it is your spiritual house.


Next, while looking yourself deep in the eyes, out loud, call yourself out on everything you have done you know was wrong, whether it was lying, stealing, cheating or anything else you know in your heart of hearts was wrong. I guarantee you will not finish with a dry eye. Why is this important?


When it comes to traditional praying, you think the prayer in your head, your eyes are closed or you are staring at an inanimate object. In doing this Mirror Technique, you are facing the shame and humiliation of being called out, especially by yourself. A little humility breeds humbleness.


Now after you have finished and wiped your tears away, still standing naked in front of the mirror, out loud tell yourself, “I forgive you [your name].” Then tell yourself, “I love you unconditionally [your name].” Have a conversation with yourself. There is nothing wrong with that. Have fun with it! Learn to laugh at and with yourself!


This mirror technique is crucial in the beginning stages of your healing process while on your spiritual journey because one cannot move forward in a positive light with negative baggage. How can one expect to be true, just and honorable with others if they are not first true, just and honorable with themselves? I am here to tell you that it will be virtually impossible to forgive others and to love them unconditionally if you cannot first learn to forgive and love yourself unconditionally. If you love yourself unconditionally, then technically speaking, you are never alone. You will always be in good company!

Speak to your guides

You receive signs from your guides every day in various forms while on your spiritual path. They are trying to connect with you. They are your healing team.


Speaking to your guides can happen anywhere and at anytime. It does not require you to get down on your knees and put your hands in prayer position. However, you may want to utilize a mudra if you are able to at that time. It is not required to call your guides with titles such as Lord, God, Master etc. You simply have a conversation with them as you would with a friend. We have all talked to ourselves before and still do. But what you do not realize is when you do that, you are actually speaking to your guides.


Now even though we all have spirit guides, everyone has that one main spirit guide which is your higher self. Have you ever had a gut feeling about something and it turns out you were correct? That is called your intuition and it was your higher self guiding you. You may have asked a question, when talking to yourself, and immediately received an answer. That was your higher self guiding you yet again.


Always finish your conversations with your guides, or higher self, with saying something like thank you, that you appreciate it, or are grateful for the help. Then soak in all those self-love vibes.

Use Sage and Palo Santo

White sage is typically a bundle of herbs and Palo Santo is a specific wood that comes from two different kinds of trees. Both of these, when dried, are used for practices that are said to cleanse a space, or yourself, of negative energy.


It is recommended to use them separately as sage is said to release the negative energy while Palo Santo is said to bring in the good.


While using sage, you can recite the following affirmation; 


"I cleanse myself of all negativity, attachments, addictions and contracts from this realm and any other realm, as they do not serve me nor belong to me."

Practice meditation regularly

Meditation is really a great tool to assist you to connect spiritually to your soul. It can take you to places, and by places I mean different dimensions or realms, that you cannot access just by going through your typical day-to-day activities.

Find your perfect crystal

Learning how to develop self-love is not always about doing things, sometimes it is about the things you have and the intentions you set.


Yes, crystals are something material, but they come straight from Mother Earth herself, which gives you a deeper connection to Gaia as a whole, which itself is a spiritual practice. In spirituality, it is recognized that we are all one, along with Gaia. We are all a part of the ecosystem and using crystals brings us back to that connection.


Crystals can be used while meditating, journaling, sleeping (put it under your pillow), for self-pleasure and sensual and sexual practices. 


Rose quartz is the crystal of love. I recommend one experiments with crystals to find what works best for them. You may find a couple of crystals that work well for you by themselves or in conjunction with each other and the Rose quartz.

Move without restriction

Movement is extremely important and something that allows you to move energy (aka bad vibes) out of your body. It can also help to release any negativity that you’re holding on to.


But here we are speaking of movement without restriction because while it is great to move, most movements are very controlled; meaning that movements like weight training, running and even yoga are all practices that have you typically moving in the same patterns over and over.


Moving without restriction through ecstatic dance or just dancing or through yoga that you just flow through without a guide or thought of what to do next, allows your body to move as it wants.


This allows for a deeper spiritual connection, as well as, to your body and gives you the opportunity to move how your body needs it to do.

Connect through card readings

Card readings are an incredibly fun and easy way to connect more spiritually. By doing a card pull, you are typically drawn to topics, people or things that you may not necessarily have at the front of your mind.


This allows you to shift your perspective and focus on the love for the soul, what your soul really wants or needs which itself is a great act of self-love. The cards always know what you really need and typically bypass what your head is telling you to think.


Animal spirit cards, tarot cards and oracle cards are all popular.

Ask the Universe for a sign

A simple way to trust the Universe, which is also an act of self-love, and receive spiritual guidance is to ask the Universe for a sign.


A sign can be angel numbers (ex. 111, 222, 333, etc.), symbols, signs, a specific number, a word; anything. Ask the Universe to give you a specific sign when you are on the right path, when you need guidance or to help you through tough times and it will deliver.

Mantras and affirmations

Utilize mantras, affirmations and even reminders, as they are an act of self-love. I often set reminders in my calendar that reminds me to tap into love more. Moreover, practice some gratitude, say to yourself what you love about you. It is easy and powerful! 

Invest in energy healing

To truly become a self-loving individual, energy healing is a necessity. It is important to know that while you can work as hard as you can to get into a state of love, which is one of the highest emotions on the vibrational scale, you will not stay there or get there as frequently without releasing the lower vibrational frequencies from your three lower earthly chakras such as shame, guilt, unworthiness, etc.


This is where energy healing comes in. Energy healing allows you to heal old wounds, let go of old stories and the emotions attached to them which can oftentimes get trapped in your body. It can also assist in transcending generational karma, past-life karma as well as current life trauma.


There are so many different types of energy healing that focus on spiritual guidance and healing. Divinergy offers various forms of healing which can be viewed by following the link below.

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Get out and ground in nature

Grounding in nature is so simple and important as we are one with Gaia. Grounding is what allows you to get out of your head, which is where all of your self-hate is, and gives you the opportunity to just be.


Be completely still in nature. Nature also has the power to pull negativity out of your body. Think back to a time when you were by the water or surrounded by lush plants or greenery, how relaxed did you feel? That is the power of grounding and grounding is yet another form of self-love that is also spiritual.


Remember,  self-love is a constant work in progress and the practice of self-love is a devotion and dedication that you will have for the rest of your life. So while major shifts can happen quickly, it can also take time, but know it will come simply because you deserve all of the love in the world just for being you.

A Message From CEO Joe Berlyak

You're a beautiful person, full of potential. What lies before you and what lies around you, fails in comparison to what lies within you! You're capable of greatness but the only thing that impedes you from acquiring your dreams are the pre-programmed addictions that allow you to trash-talk yourself. You're better than that, and you know it.

You're the only person who should be concerned about how you live your life. You have to love yourself unconditionally and learn to forgive yourself. Find contentment in being disliked for who you are instead of being loved for who you're not. You can be loved by everyone but if you're not happy with how you live your life, it'll be a struggle just to get out of bed every day.

You have to believe in everything that you are. Within you is something far greater than any obstacle you will ever encounter. There's nothing you're unable to accomplish!

When you have an image that you can succeed in something and you believe you can do it instead of thinking you're unable to, you'll start acting upon the image you have in your mind. You're unable to control what people say and do and you're unable to control outside situations but you can control how you react to them. You'll never flourish in life if you surround yourself with negative people and engulf yourself in negative situations. You have more control than you give yourself credit for. Remove the negativity from your life. It's toxic and it'll eat you alive. If you're striving to succeed in something and you fail, don't look at it as failure but rather you found one way that didn't work.

Get out of your comfort zone, even if it's just for a little bit, and you'll find yourself beginning to flourish. Remaining in your comfort zone is dangerous. Interest yourself in things that will push you towards positive growth. Challenge yourself and never settle for second best. There will always be room for improvement but there must also be a balance in your life.

Never apologize for being you. Never apologize for your convictions. You owe no one an explanation for being you.


~ Joe Berlyak

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